100 Must Read Books

This list is great. I’ve personally read only a handful of them but everyone should make an effort to check a few out.

Edit: Ok, I wanted to add a bit more to this.  I realize a lot of people don’t read anymore.  That being said, most of you have heard of these books, which is a start.  The web and wikipedia is all fine and dandy but the ability to read or listen or watch a story and grasp the foundational ideas is what’s key.  40 Year Old Virgin is a good example of the sexual pressures put on teenagers.  Last Kiss demonstrates a man’s inability to cope with drastic changes.  Beyond Good and Evil (Neitzsche) demonstrates the vast gap between existentialism and religion when dealing with philosophy.  Great Gastby (Fitzgerald) shows that a single friend is better than many acquaintances.  The Hobbit (Tolkein) exemplifies the significant behavior changes found with dangerous stimuli.

So you’re thinking, “so what?”.  That’s a good question I suppose.  If you live for today, have no aspirations, don’t feel the need to grow as a person, that’s your bottle (Atlast Shrugged deals with this).  For those of you who have personal questions, those who have ideas about why we are who we are, those who want to try something new and aren’t certain, read people!  There are so many good ideas out there, so much reference and character building reference available, we shouldn’t be leaving it in the library to dust.  /rant off 🙂

Movies

Friday was Juno, Saturday was P.S. I Love You

Juno – 4/5.  A beautifully crafted movie about a 16 year old who gets “preggers” and realizes early that she’s not ready for it.  Some pro-life consideration later, she offers it for adoption with a nice couple.  The thing about this movie isn’t the ups and downs (there are few), it’s the realism of the characters.  Sure, Juno can be seen as your typical old-young teen (loves the 70s) that many people pass through.  What seperates her and her family is the simple straight talk and frankness that exudes from each scene.  When she announces it to her parents, no one freaks out into hysterics.  There’s an air of normalcy, of relatable characters that you simply do not find in other movies.  As wild and extreme as knocked up is, Juno is your family.  And that’s why I love it.

P.S. I Love You – 2/5 stars.  Hillary Swank is not a comedic actress.  She is the straight faced schmuck from whom jokes are directed off.  Think Luke Wilson in old school.  Now, I’m sure this was a good book; for it to reach movie status it must have been.  However, the whole thing reeks of phony and the only interesting character is the one who dies 5 minutes into the movie.  The fact that he stays as a voice over and the SOLE catalyst for anything is disturbing.  The GF shed a few tears (insert standard tear-jerker moment) as is custom.  However, when the best scene is found in the deleted section (when Gerry gets the holiday package), you know you’re in for a rough ride.  That being said, if you need some points, might as well tough it out.

DPI – Summit 2008

http://www.summit2008.ca/

I was able to attend days 2 and 3.  The keynote speakers were very entertaining.  Day 2 dealt mostly with new technologies and how they impact our work and play.  Day 3 was more about the cultural shifts required for future growth.

As some may know, I’m a geek;  I am not a techie by any means.  I love using the tools and learning new ways of doing things.  I am also an avid gamer but not for the button mashing reasons.  As I mentioned previously about GTA4, it’s the tiny details that seem to revolutionize experiences.  It’s not like there’s a switch and everyone is doing it the new way, it’s a gradual thing.  Looking back though, just the past 5 years have seen more advancement in information sharing than in the past 100 years.  Someone with a computer can learn about ANYTHING now.  It kind of puts the whole school experience into a new light (more in another topic).

Ok, so back to DPI.  Day 2 started well.  First keynote was a young guy who sold mydesktop.com for a chunk of cash and was in near the beginning of peer collaboration.  Good notes about how there is a definite stigma about online activities being seen as anti-social when in fact, they are the complete opposite.  This is more so due to VoIP, where I can play a game, talk to other people and achieve a goal with 12 more.  Think about a 15 year old who just spent 4 hours with 12 people, finding the solution and pattern to some challenge.  Then they go to school the next day and have to listen how differentials are imortant in life.  How can you compete?

The seminar I wanted to attend, WIFI, was cancelled and I decided to try a communication workshop.  Worst event I have ever attended.  Everything said by the speaker was contradictive and contrived.  When the midpoint arrived I left for another seminar, as did half of the group.  She’s also a “career coach”.  I forsee her losing a lot of business because I would never want that attitude in my career.

Next up, Leadership and Change.  2 very interesting men with enough material to fill up 2 weeks and only 50 minutes to talk.  What a shame.

Lunch.  Met some new people, including an IT architect.  Good food.

Next session was Jean Ricard, an Everest climber.  Not the best speaker but his content was great.  To see the trials he had to go through to even attempt the climb, amazing.  The level of commitment is more than most people will have in their entire life.  Really a beacon of what is humanly possible.

Last keynote of day 2 was David Eaves, a young member of Canada25.  It was supposed to be about Public Sector renewal but actually touched more on the inability for the public sector to adapt to current pressures and needs.  Everything needs to move at breakneck speeds and many people just can’t catch up.  He also touched on the community experience.  People used to sit in a cafeteria to talk.  Well, when you’re 50 people, that’s an option.  We’re tens of thousands in the NCR alone, we need a virtual cafeteria to grow further.

Day 3.  First keynote was Linda Duxbury.  Crazy lady or crazy ideas?  Neither.  One of the most coherent analyses of the government workforce.  Dealing mostly with the generational gap and the huge communication and motivational gaps thereing, it was an eye-opening note for most.  If it only helps 10% of the people there, they’ll talk about it to others and the word will spread.  The way the government works today is wrong.  It’s archaic, conformative, throttling and non-rewarding.  The downside is, it doesn’t have to change for 10 years, because that’s when the last of the brass leaves.  The good side is that the young people coming in from the bottom are forcing change on management.  They just won’t take no for an answer and they will just get up and leave if it doesn’t make sense.

Session 1 was about harnessing collaborative tools.  I live in this world, so there really wasn’t anything new for me.  It was an eye-opener for many though.  This was the perfect time to give a tech demo of how the tools work.   Why this isn’t done on a large scale…I have no idea.

Session 2 was about Change Management.  Great speaker.  Touched on what doesn’t work and what you need to do to make it work.  I think the latter part was what really got me going.  She used real world relateable examples as well, making the concepts much easier to grasp.  I think I’ll be using many of the ideas discussed in the future.

I missed out on the last keynote though.

Overall, a good experience.  It’s unfortunate that such an event happens on a yearly basis.  If this session proved anything, we need to get together in some fashion more frequently.  The world evolves at a breakneck speed and an annual meeting is just not effective.  Maybe a sharepoint site  ? 🙂

Communication

Ok, this is maybe a bit out from left field but it’s something I think needs to be addressed in this day and age.

We are a communication rich society.  Everything is at our fingertips – or we think it should be.  Why is it then that management/direction has such a hard time disseminating information to it’s workers?

Think about it.  Every night you go home, you can watch 2-3 news shows, read the internet, chat with your friends, heck even the grocery store has some new information.  You go to work, do what you need to do, go home and hope that you did the right thing based on scraps of information you gathered weeks ago.

I am a document & process driven individual.  If I know it can be done better and faster, I’ll test it out and then write it out so that others can follow and save time.  What do we do with that extra time?  Find other things that can be done faster and LEARN more!  If I put together the amount of time I spend hunting on how to do the basics and policies of my job and had a single, accessible, intuitive resource to connect to in order to GET that information, I would save a day a week.  As it is, I need to ask 3 people to find the right one who can point me in the right direction.

Solution?  Monthly management information sessions.  Like a news broadcast if you will.  I am lucky that my current team works like this.  I know a lot that do not.  It’s like the telephone game.  If the message is going to go through 10 people before getting to me, you can bet your coffee, I’m getting the wrong information.  I need it from the horse’s mouth.  And I need it frequently.

Then again, could just be me!

GTA IV & Co.

Last night was fun.  Locked the keys in the car.  Took a drive to Castle Heights (that’s the nice name for Overbrook).  Picked up a cable splitter and GTA IV.  Got home and the fun began.

An hour.  A frikin’ hour to find the cable that lead to the living room.  Why so hard?  One, the coax cable was black and I’ve never seen construction grade coax be black before.  Two, the end of it was snipped off by the cable guy when he put in my recent connection.  I guess that’s their way to make sure you have to call them back to get it up and running again.  Pshh, enough with that!  I just stripped the wire, plugged it in and presto, cable.  So now the GF can watch her show upstairs while I use the big screen downstairs. This is something I should have done a LONG time ago.

Now onto GTA IV.  I had maybe an hour to try it out.   It’s a bit like watching a CG movie really.  It isn’t the large details anymore, I think we’re well past that point in gaming.  It’s all about the small things.  When Niko runs down stairs, he takes them sideways, one step at a time while running.  You remember back in the day when stairs acted just like ramps.  That’s done with.  Also, facial expressions are amazing in this game.  Eyes open, pupils change, faces twitch.  The movement is just so smooth.  There’s a beautiful flow.  And I’m only an hour in!!  Going to be a blast.

Forgetting Sarah Marshall

Trailer

So we had the choice between this and Baby Mama yesterday.  I guess the first thing I should say is “Wow do movies ever suck today when my two choices are romcoms”.  I love Tina Fey (she’s married 😦 ) but that one was more chick comedy.  I wanted something with overall appeal.  Yeah.

Cue the cinema!  Tuesday are like they are giving away free crack.  The place is just jammed packed and you have 14 year old working as fast as a 90 year old.  It’s really something to watch.  I think they put the keeners at the ticket ripping booth and the sloths behind the concession stand.  We showed up 30 minutes before the show started and sat down just as the previews began; two rows from the front I might add.  Honestly, the movie business wonders why we don’t want to go to the movies anymore?  Maybe they should try going themselves without a limo.

Anyhow, on to the movie.  Can I say it’s the funiest movie of the year?  Is it too early yet?  Warning, full frontal male nudity.  Ever see 200 men all feel awkward at the same time?  It’s a great comedy device though, original.  The whole movie is about uncomfortable situations.  The two ladies are quite easy on the eyes.  The two leading men are something else altogether.  One is subdued, dejected, confused.  The other one is cool, pompous, assured.  The 4 way conversation at dinner is simply amazing writing.  I have BEEN in that conversation.  Most men have!

The thing about these types of comedies (Superbad, 40 year old virgin, Knocked Up) is that every character is relatable.  They could be a friend you knew, a family member, even you.  This movie is no different.  There are no single dimensions, every character is fleshed out appropriately, the jokes are well set up and naturally funny in their honesty.

The downside, and it’s a significant one in that it’s required, is the statutory ‘guy messes up and everyone is wondering why’.  The entire scene is just shoved in there, like the writers wrote that scene backwards.  I understand the need for this scene.  I just don’t understand the context and it truly detracts from the entire film.

Overall however, a solid 4 out of 5.

Day 3

Well I guess not really day 3 but who’s counting? I did the chest and shoulders workout yesterday. Can you belive that it was the first day in 2 weeks I had an hour to spare for it? People who do this 6 days a week truly have nothing to do.

Anyhow back to the workout. Shoulders, biceps, triceps, repeat. 15 times. Based on past experience I knew I needed to take this one a little easier so I dropped the weight down 5 lbs for most of it. Big difference this morning. Only a slight tingle in the shoulders.

I will say this, the program is well paced. They give ample time to do each set and rest for 10-20s. After doing a set of curls ain’t no way I can do triceps right after.

Though I’ve only done 3, this is my least favorite. Maybe because I already have a lot of experience in it. Plyometrics, though by far the most pain inducing, was the best so far.

Lost About Lost?

This video is 4 minutes long and recaps all the stuff that’s happened thusfar.  Well, not all of it but enough so that people can watch and have a slight understanding of what’s going on.

Damn this show is good.